LOVE – G-News

Be sure you are right for her son, if you are not, she will know and will not accept you.

Mothers have very strong intuition about their children especially godly mothers. She knows a million miles off if your motive for her son is to make his life better or worse.

Contribute meaningfully into her son’s life!

Ladies who only agree to marry a man because he has a car and lives in a choice apartment without contributing anything whatsoever to his life except reap where they have not sown should not expect the mother-in-law to-be give them the green card!

Your role in man’s life is to help him achieve greatness not suck all the element of greatness out of him.

If his life has changed noticeably since he met you, she will know and love you for it.

Show her utmost respect.

It’s not easy birthing, training and raising the adult you fell in love with and wants to marry. She deserves kudos for a good job well done. Respect, honour and appreciate her for being a great mother.

Call her often.

When you visit (not on the first visit), buy her gifts.

Assist with chores if you meet her doing something when you visit.

Genuinely love her from the depth of your heart.

Genuinely love her son.

Respect her son.

Speak well of her son.

Tell her the qualities you love about her son and appreciate her for training him well.

Ask God to give you favor in her sight.

Ask God to give you wisdom on how best to relate with her.

Overlook her weaknesses. Your mum has some too.

Tell your fiance things you like about his mother.

Learn her language if you are from a different tribe and endeavor to speak the little you know whenever you are with her.

Always dress decently.

Avoid local or international gossip.

Always speak with wisdom.

Do not answer questions you are not asked.

Be patient with her if she is slow at accepting you. She is studying you. She needs to be sure you are really the r
ight person for her son.

Do not be judgmental.

Smile always.

Carry God with you every time.

Believe you will be favoured and you will.

Not all mothers in-law are evil.

Set the right foundation for your marriage.

If you can win her love in courtship and continue to win her love into marriage and never stop being a virtuous woman, your marriage to her son will be nothing short of heaven on earth.

May your marriage be sweet!
Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!

Gentlemen, a woman loves being loved not just in private, but in public too. She looks out for those public gestures that confirm to her “Indeed, this man loves me”, public gestures such as:-

HOLDING HER ARM OR HAND WHILE WALKING
This demonstrates you are not ashamed to be seen cozy with her
INTRODUCING HER BY HER TITLE
Don’t introduce her to friends, family or the public by just her name, but as ‘This is my woman/wife’. This makes her secure as her position in your life is made public
TELLING HER I LOVE YOU IN PUBLIC
When she tells you she loves you in public, don’t nod or just smile or say ‘Me too’.. say ‘I love you’ back. And don’t always wait for her to tell you, you declare it to her publicly first sometimes. Often a woman will tell her man ‘I love you’ when they are in public or when he’s speaking to her on phone and he is with people to test if he will say ‘I love you’ just like he says in private
KISSING HER IN PUBLIC
Giving her a public kiss on the cheek, lips or forehead to say ‘Hello’, ‘Goodbye’ or for any reason says ‘I love my woman and I am not bothered if the world sees or knows it’
HOLDING HER WAIST WHILE STANDING
This shows closeness between you two, you know she allows only you to hold her there
PULLING UP A CHAIR AND OPENING THE DOOR FOR HER
This is for when you are out on dates, it shows you are making effort to treat her as special and the world better take notice
PUTTING A RING ON IT
If you like it put a ring on it; correction, if you love her put a ring on her finger. An engagement ring from you is a way of telling the world ‘That’s my wife in waiting, keep off, handle with caution’
STATING THAT YOU ARE TAKEN
It is important that you clearly state it publicly that you are a taken man, act like a man who is not available. Don’t flirt around, don’t give an impression that you are free to mingle. Even on Facebook, state that you are in a relationship, engaged or married to so and so
LIKING AND COMMENTING ON HER FACEBOOK POSTS
Each time she posts a photo of herself on social media or she posts something, it will mean alot if you notice, more so, if you like, and especially if you drop a comment in the view of the community of Facebook friends
PUTTING A PROFILE PICTURE OF HER
Put a profile picture of her or of you two together once in a while on Facebook or Whatsapp and you will see how she will feel special because the world gets to see you elevating her to honor
MARKING YOUR TERRITORY
If another man comes to charm your woman, roar, make your presence felt, give him a look that says ‘Not this one’
PUBLICLY PROTECTING HER
If your family or friends or your ex tries to unsettle her, that is not for her to fight; you come to her defense and make sure she gets to see you publicly by her side
LETTING HER WALK THE A SIDE THAT IS AWAY FROM TRAFFIC
When you two are walking, you be the one to walk closer to the passing cars. Yes, she is a grown woman, but show a gesture that you are her protector
SHOWING UP ON HER SPECIAL OCCASIONS
On her birthday, her promotion party, house warming, graduation or any ocassion she invites others; show up to support her and be by her side
MARRYING HER
This is the greatest public display of love, you entering a covenant with her before God and the world professing your love and commitment
WEARING HER RING
The wedding ring she placed on your finger when you got married, never take it off. It is a daily public display saying you are a proud husband to a wife you love

Love is not just what you do with her in private, it’s what you do to her and for her when others are watching!

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