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PRAYER AGAINST BAD DREAMS!!!

1.Thank You Heavenly Father, for the sweet and sound sleep You gave me last night. May Your Holy Name be forever glorified in my life.

  1. This day I cancel and flush out the effects of any bad dream (mention them) in the name of Jesus.
  2. I bind by fire, every power behind evil and bad dreams in my life this day in Jesus’ name.
  3. You personality that is manipulating evil and bad dreams into my life, perish by fire, in the name of Jesus.
  4. Every harrassment of the spirit of death in my dreams, die, in the name of Jesus.
  5. Every coffin prepared for me in the dream, catch your owner, in the name of Jesus.
  6. Every evil arrows fired into my life through my dreams, backfire, in the name of Jesus.
  7. Every unclean spirit assigned to pollute my body in the dreams, die, in the name of Jesus.
  8. Every spirit spouse assigned to be molesting me in the dreams, die, in the name of Jesus.
  9. Let the thunder and lightening of God blind every spirit spouse in the name of Jesus.
  10. Every spirit of immorality, wickedness and witchcraft manifesting in the form of dogs and serpents in my dreams, die, in the name of Jesus.
  11. I barricade my life and home with the fire of God against the operation of spirit spouses, in the name of Jesus.
  12. Every remains from spirit spouse in my body, be flushed out by the blood of Jesus.
  13. Every dream of backwardness, die, in the name of Jesus.
  14. Every negative dream shall not come to pass in my life, in the name of Jesus.
  15. Every dream of hopelessness, die, in the name of Jesus.
  16. Every spiritual cannibal, vomit everything you have eaten from my life, in the name of Jesus.
  17. Every spirit behind evil dreams in my life, die, in the name of Jesus.
  18. I bind the strongman in my life, and I clear my goods from your possession, in the name of Jesus.
  19. Every spirit that has been oppressing me in the dream, dry up by fire, in the name of Jesus.
  20. Every senseless and meaningless dream, die, in the name of Jesus.
  21. Every strongman of bad luck attached to my life through dreams, fall down and die, in the name of Jesus.
  22. Every satanic hand assigned to be serving me all evil foods in my dreams, be cut off by the fire of God, in the name of Jesus.
  23. Blood of Jesus purge my system of demonic food eaten in the dreams, in the name of Jesus.
  24. Every evil dream that other people have had about me, I cancel them in the astral world, in the name of Jesus.
  25. Every image of satan in my dream, I curse you to wither now, in the name of Jesus.
  26. Every arrow of death in the dream come out and go back to your sender, in the name of Jesus.
  27. I drink the blood of Jesus to neutralize every satanic food or drink taken in the dream, in the name of Jesus.
  28. I paralyze the spirit that bring bad dreams to me, in the name of Jesus.
  29. Every power planting affliction into my life in the dream, be buried alive, in the name of Jesus.
  30. Let the blood of Jesus erase all evil dreams in the name of Jesus.
  31. Any evil programme, programmed into my life from my dream, be dismantled, in the name of Jesus.
  32. O Lord, deliver me from witchcraft dream, in the name of Jesus.
  33. Every anti-prosperity dream, die, in the name of Jesus.
  34. You powers of the night polluting my night dreams, be paralyzed, in the name of Jesus.
  35. Every dream serpent, go back to your sender, in the name of Jesus.
  36. I cancel and wipe off all evil dreams, in the name of Jesus.
  37. I reject every evil loads on me through dreams in the name of Jesus…

Receive your permanent victory evil dreams in Jesus Name. Amen.

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JESUS SNATCHED MY GIRLFRIEND

My girlfriend visited me for a weekend and I took her along to a church programme where I was invited.

The two guest speakers for the first and second days were wonderful. We laughed and shouted “Fire” and even sowed seeds of greatness. And I took my girlfriend back to my house.

However, the guest speaker that came on the last day was the one that turned the whole programme sour for me. He did not wear any big shoes or expensive suit. His haircut was even scattered. Unlike other guests before him, he did not have any escort or security. But I noticed that the moment he climbed the pulpit, the atmosphere changed.

He started singing: “Something more than gold… Something more than silver…The Word of God in the heart of a believer, is something more than gold.” And within five minutes, I began to see something like a mist, like a thick cloud inside that auditorium. It was not long before I began to hear cries of men and women, boys and girls. The church hall was tense. You would wonder if this was the same church we had been coming to for the past two days … “Lord, help me”… “Forgive me Jesus…” “Don’t leave me this way.”

The glory inside that house was too much.

When I managed to open my eyes, I didn’t see anybody standing. I was the only one on my feet. The host pastor was on the floor, in front of the church, with his wife. The assistant pastors were with him in front of the church, crying. The preacher was lying flat, crying on the altar… And for more than 1:45 minutes, people were rolling on the floor, crying their hearts out.

I was still standing, looking around for my girlfriend. When I found her, she was crying and blasting in tongues. I can’t forget what she t told me: “Felix, when that young pastor was singing that song, my eyes were opened and I saw Jesus for the first time in my life. I saw the kind of splendour I cannot explain. I saw His wounds… I saw Him on the Cross… I saw Him calling me to surrender my life to Him…Felix, something has happened to me… And I am no more that same person.

“Felix, did you not feel what I felt? Did you not see what I saw? What I saw is worth more than the whole world. I saw a Crown that I cannot lose… Felix, I have to surrender to Jesus…I know I love you and you love me too…. But I have to let you go. At this moment, I have surrendered to Jesus. It will be better to lose you than to lose that Crown that I saw.”

Tears had dried on our bodies and fresh ones were coming. I could not even stop her, as she left. The girl I knew before had changed. It dawned on me that that young man of God had made me lose the girlfriend I loved so much.

As I rolled from one part of the bed to another, alone, inside my room, from morning till night, I began to blame myself for taking her along to that programme. Don’t blame me; I was not born again then. Where else was I going to see another girl who would love me like she? I was furious, but deep down in my heart, I knew that she had met with God. I knew that this was exactly how it used to be in the 1980s and 1990s before Satan came to church.

My friends told me to give my girlfriend some time that she would run back to me when memories of our sinful past would begin to haunt her. I waited for months and years, up till now, she never did.

And thank God, in the fullness of time, when it pleased Him to intercept me from a speedy journey to hell, I understood what happened to my ex-girlfriend. Several times, I have seen that same thing she saw that made her abandon me without looking back. Brethren, if you see what she saw, you would never be afraid to lose any man, or woman, or honour. Lord, anybody, anything can go; I don’t want to lose the glory you showed me!

Why do we complain that nobody will host us in his big auditorium and give us big honorarium?

We did not see honorarium before we left all and embarked on this journey. We saw a Crown that we must not lose on the last day. Many are already wearing their own crowns here (crowns made of straw)… They have forgotten the encounters God used to give them when they first met Jesus. We don’t need those who want to show everyone that they are succeeding in ministry, even when they are not known in Heaven. Our lives are better with fewer people whose eyes are still on that Crown.

In the last crusade where you ministered, you came back with car keys, laptops, iPhones and landed documents sown as seeds into your ministry. But there were no tears of repentance. Sinners came as sinners, sowed their seeds as sinners and left as sinners. When again are we going to see you preach and men will start falling over another, even without altar call, asking God for repentance for their sins? Your choristers are already singing with snared hearts. When are we going to hear somebody say about you, that: “This is that man of God that I heard and I left my sins and did not go back to them again?”

Brethren, I don’t know what they tell you in your church every Sunday. I know you want to shun your evil ways, but the church you submitted to seems not to have a problem with your sinful lifestyle. From year to year, they don’t preach against sin; only giving you 100 ways to make wealth, even when you are sinking miserably in sin and addictions. Brethren, stop playing church while you are feasting on your vomit. It’s time to cry for an encounter. How long will you keep falling and rising and falling again? It’s time to cry for just one touch of Fire…I am sure heaven will not shun your wet eyes and cracked lips.

I adapted this convert’s experience on the walk to heaven whose original author God will continue to bless. This is the message we need in these dire times. Sadly, showmen have seized the pulpits with so much fanfare and razzmatazz. Even witch doctors are now adorned in designer suits, simulating our language but are not of us.

Beware, brethren, beware of suborned miracles and quackery. Stop chasing after that spurious miracle, saint of God. Don’t you know that once you give your life to Christ, miracles are birthright? (Matthew 6:38). Why then do you sell yourself cheap at the expense of your soul?

Jesus stole my girlfriend but I’m blessed that I lost her to Him rather man. I’m blessed that I did not hinder her. I’m blessed that I too have lost myself to Jesus, the only hope and truth. Whose road are you blocking from following Jesus? Maybe you are even blocking yourself because of the varnished dainties of life.

Ironically, the gifts of men are silly. One day, you are monarch, with all the trappings of power and glory at your beck and call. The next day, you are at the mercy of your subject, who would ignominiously shove you off the throne and quarantine you where they please, and that’s not because you have coronavirus. Any wonder the most glorious, most wise of kings, Solomon, described all as vanity?

Brethren, in God’s business of salvation, if you are headed in the wrong direction, U-turn is allowed.

It does not matter who or what you are: President, Governor, senator, business czar, academic, Igwe, Emir, Oba, cleric or plain nobody – humanity has common destiny six feet in the red earth. The difference is on which side we wake in the hereafter, in heaven or hell. Think about it; the choice is yours.

MAY YOU HAVE AN ENCOUNTER WITH JESUS

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Soldier in court for allegedly having sex with minor

A 30-year-old soldier has appeared before an Accra Circuit Court, for allegedly having sex multiple times with a 14-year-old girl at Burma Camp, Accra.   

Cpl Offei Richard Okyere, charged with defilement, has pleaded not guilty.

The Court presided over by Adelaide Abui Kadey, remanded Cpl Okyere into Military custody to reappear on January 27.   

The facts as presented by Detective Sergeant Opoku Aniagyei are that; the complainant is a 53-year-old labourer of the Ghana Military Police residing at Burma Camp, Accra. 

The prosecution said the victim is a 14-year-old Junior High School Student, residing with the father who is the complainant in the case.   

Detective Sergeant Aniagyei said Okyere was also residing at Burma Camp and that the complainant and Okyere worked in the same Regiment and were very good friends.   

The prosecution said between July and September last year, Okyere took advantage of the friendship between him and the complainant and paid visits to the complainant’s house.   

He said whiles the complainant was away, Okyere lured the victim into their room and had sexual intercourse with the victim in a sofa chair.   

The prosecution said on another occasion, Okyere had sex with the victim on the complainant’s bed.   

He said not satisfied with the sexual advances, Okyere took the victim to a nearby bush about 200 meters away from the victim’s house and had sex with her.   

The prosecution said on December 15, last year, the victim’s elder sister questioned whether she was a virgin and the victim denied being one. 

This, the prosecution said made the complainant suspicious and he asked the victim who broke her virginity and she mentioned Okyere as the one who had been having sexual intercourse with her.   

He said on December 16, last year, the complainant reported the matter to one Military Police and they arrested Okyere who was detained in a guardroom.

The prosecution said the Military Police issued a medical form to the complainant to seek treatment for the victim at any government hospital.

The prosecution said a medical report was submitted on the victim after medical examination on January 2, this year.   

He said later, the complainant, the victim and Okyere were brought to the Domestic Violence and Victim’s Support Unit of the Ghana Police Service in Accra by the Military Police.

Source: GNA

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I voted for Mike Oquaye- Adwoa Safo sets records straight

“My attention has been drawn to rumours and wild speculations on mainline and social media suggesting that I, Sarah Adwoa Safo, voted against Prof Mike Oquaye, the NPP’s nominee for the position of Speaker during the last sitting of the 7th Parliament on the dawn of 7th January, 2021.

It is being alleged that I voted against Prof Oquaye because he [Prof Oquaye] allowed his son to contest me in the recent past Dome Kwabenya parliamentary primaries of the NPP in the run up to the 2020 general elections. How absurd!

I wish to state emphatically that, there is no iota of truth in these vile rumours and speculations, and I call on all and sundry to completely disregard same. For the avoidance of doubt, I wish to state without any shred of doubt that, I, Sarah Adwoa Safo, voted for Prof Mike Oquaye.

I had absolutely no motivation to vote otherwise. In the over 20 years of my active political life, I have always stood for and publicly supported decisions of my party, the NPP. My unquenchable loyalty and commitment to the NPP over decades can certainly not be shaken by an ordinary internal contest within the party. At every stage of my parliamentary political life, I have been contested, and at no point have I begrudged my fellow contestants.

Whilst it is indeed true that since 2007, I have been contesting in the Dome Kwabenya parliamentary primaries of the party, it is undeniable, that, regardless of the outcome of each contest, I never hesitated in deploying my time and resources at the disposal of the party to ensure that Dome Kwabenya remains our traditional stronghold election after election.

Also, as a firm believer of our democratic tenets, which is one of the founding principles of the NPP, I have never, and can never hold any grudge with any person(s) that contest me in our party’s primaries. It therefore comes to me, as not only egregious, but also highly unconscionable for anyone to suggest that I would betray my party merely because I was contested in the recent parliamentary primaries of the party.

Beyond that, it must also be recalled that I contributed to the debate on the floor of parliament at that special sitting, making a solid case for the party’s nominee, Prof Mike Oquaye to be re-elected as the Speaker of the august house.

Instructively, I was the only female Member of Parliament who spoke for the party’s nominee on that faithful day. Having made a case for the re-election of Prof Mike Oquaye as Speaker, what at all would be my motivation to vote against him? This, certainly, beggars belief.

Also, as the immediate past Deputy Majority Leader and a 3-term Member of Parliament, I am not oblivious of the devastating consequences of not having the Speaker on the side of the governing party. I therefore could not have contemplated putting my party and government in such an uncomfortable and dire situation by voting against the party’s nominee for the position of Speaker.

Notwithstanding the viciousness of these malicious allegations against my person, I remain resolute and focused on my work as a Member of the august house to the service of my constituents, my party and of course, the government of President Nana Addo Dankwa Akufo-Addo in delivering prosperity to the Ghanaian people.

…Signed…

SARAH ADWOA SAFO(HON.)
MP, DOME KWABENYA

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Our classroom block a death trap – Enyan Apaa D/A Basic Sch. students cry out

Students of Enyan Apaa D/A Basic School in the Ajumako Enyan Essiam District of the Central Region fear they will put their lives in danger if they continue to school in the dilapidated classroom block.

Describing the classroom block as a death trap, the told Kasapa News Yaw Boagyan that for the past two years they always become very worried whenever strong winds accompany rains.
Investigation revealed that efforts to get the District Chief Executive for the District Hon. Ransford Kwesi Nyarko to came and rehabilitate the classroom block for the past two years has proven futile.

Residents say failure to rehabilitate of Classroom block may prevent them from allowing their ward to go back to school when school resumes.

They are calling on the authorities to come to their aid and have the classroom block rehabilitated.

Source: kasapafm

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WOMEN LOVE PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION:

Gentlemen, a woman loves being loved not just in private, but in public too. She looks out for those public gestures that confirm to her “Indeed, this man loves me”, public gestures such as:-

  1. HOLDING HER ARM OR HAND WHILE WALKING
    This demonstrates you are not ashamed to be seen cozy with her
  2. INTRODUCING HER BY HER TITLE
    Don’t introduce her to friends, family or the public by just her name, but as ‘This is my woman/wife’. This makes her secure as her position in your life is made public
  3. TELLING HER I LOVE YOU IN PUBLIC
    When she tells you she loves you in public, don’t nod or just smile or say ‘Me too’.. say ‘I love you’ back. And don’t always wait for her to tell you, you declare it to her publicly first sometimes. Often a woman will tell her man ‘I love you’ when they are in public or when he’s speaking to her on phone and he is with people to test if he will say ‘I love you’ just like he says in private
  4. KISSING HER IN PUBLIC
    Giving her a public kiss on the cheek, lips or forehead to say ‘Hello’, ‘Goodbye’ or for any reason says ‘I love my woman and I am not bothered if the world sees or knows it’
  5. HOLDING HER WAIST WHILE STANDING
    This shows closeness between you two, you know she allows only you to hold her there
  6. PULLING UP A CHAIR AND OPENING THE DOOR FOR HER
    This is for when you are out on dates, it shows you are making effort to treat her as special and the world better take notice
  7. PUTTING A RING ON IT
    If you like it put a ring on it; correction, if you love her put a ring on her finger. An engagement ring from you is a way of telling the world ‘That’s my wife in waiting, keep off, handle with caution’
  8. STATING THAT YOU ARE TAKEN
    It is important that you clearly state it publicly that you are a taken man, act like a man who is not available. Don’t flirt around, don’t give an impression that you are free to mingle. Even on Facebook, state that you are in a relationship, engaged or married to so and so
  9. LIKING AND COMMENTING ON HER FACEBOOK POSTS
    Each time she posts a photo of herself on social media or she posts something, it will mean alot if you notice, more so, if you like, and especially if you drop a comment in the view of the community of Facebook friends
  10. PUTTING A PROFILE PICTURE OF HER
    Put a profile picture of her or of you two together once in a while on Facebook or Whatsapp and you will see how she will feel special because the world gets to see you elevating her to honor
  11. MARKING YOUR TERRITORY
    If another man comes to charm your woman, roar, make your presence felt, give him a look that says ‘Not this one’
  12. PUBLICLY PROTECTING HER
    If your family or friends or your ex tries to unsettle her, that is not for her to fight; you come to her defense and make sure she gets to see you publicly by her side
  13. LETTING HER WALK THE A SIDE THAT IS AWAY FROM TRAFFIC
    When you two are walking, you be the one to walk closer to the passing cars. Yes, she is a grown woman, but show a gesture that you are her protector
  14. SHOWING UP ON HER SPECIAL OCCASIONS
    On her birthday, her promotion party, house warming, graduation or any ocassion she invites others; show up to support her and be by her side
  15. MARRYING HER
    This is the greatest public display of love, you entering a covenant with her before God and the world professing your love and commitment
  16. WEARING HER RING
    The wedding ring she placed on your finger when you got married, never take it off. It is a daily public display saying you are a proud husband to a wife you love

Love is not just what you do with her in private, it’s what you do to her and for her when others are watching!

© Dayan Masinde

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How Long Should A Courtship Last?

Courtship starts when a MATURED SINGLE MAN after a STRONG CONVICTION from GOD that a single lady is meant to be his wife decides to PROPOSE his INTENTION OF MARRIAGE to the lady and the MATURED SINGLE LADY also decides to ACCEPT his PROPOSAL after a STRONG CONVICTION from GOD that the man is meant to be her husband.

There are seven areas of preparation that every wise single person should put in place before going into a relationship or marriage.

*Spiritual Preparation

*Physical Preparation

*Financial Preparation

*Emotional Preparation

*Mental Preparation

*Social Preparation and

*Moral Preparation

Once you are ready to go into a relationship, you Should Not Operate Your Relationship As A Secret Cult. Your Pastor Or Your Mentor Should Know About Your Relationship. Both Parents Must Also Bless The Courtship. Courtship Should Not Be A Secret Affair If You Don’t Have A Hidden Agenda! If Your Partner Says You Must Not Tell Your Pastors, Mentors Or Parents About Your Courtship, There Is Fire On The Mountain! 😳☹️

If You Are Not Matured Enough To Go Into An Open Courtship, Then Don’t Go Into It! Avoid A Secret Courtship!

Courtship Should Not Be Less Than 6 Months and More Than 2 years Except Where There Is Parental Objection Or Financial Challenge!

Marriage is not what you rush into. Courtship Should Not Be Less Than 6 Months before you tie the knot.

Courtship is a period of serious discussion, assessment, learning, openness and pre-marital counselling. It is a period of knowing one another more intimately.

Scripturally, no time is specified. But based on counseling and personal experience, I advised that no courtship should be less than 6 months and more than two years except where there is sickness, parental objection or financial challenge.

If it is less than 6 months, there is a danger of not knowing each other at all before the wedding.

It is extremely dangerous to marry somebody you do not really know even if he says he is an apostle or she is a world evangelist. Do yourself and your destiny a favor by not getting married in darkness. People can pretend to be what they are not but if you are patient and prayerful, you will discover so many things about them.

Also, courtship should not be too long.
If courtship is too long, it can lead to sexual immorality because of too much exposure to each other, or it can be boring and if care is not taken it can lead to a broken relationship.

If you court for only a month or less, then, you will need God’s special grace in your marriage because, knowing each other will last almost a lifetime. While learning about each other takes time, you are better off when you know quite a lot about someone.

Although, it is not how long but how well.

I know of people who have gotten married very quickly (like in a matter of days) and are still married decades later—and people who did the same thing and were divorced just as quickly. Or, a couple may be “in a relationship” for a decade, finally get married, and then split up in the first year.

It really depends on the people involved, the reasons why they get married when they do and their preparation for a godly marriage.

Singles should spend more time in prayers for the right person for them, and give their time also to godly marital seminars, marriage books and counseling.

Similarly, singles in courtship should pray, fast and gather more knowledge from the Word, concerning His promises and commandments needed for a successful family life.

You will not miss it in marriage in Jesus name.

Pst Samuel Olagbenjo
Instagram: samuelolagbenjo

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LADY, CHERISH THIS KIND OF MAN

  1. Cherish the man who loves his mum. He has been brought up well
  2. Cherish the man who loves to read, and not just for exams. He is wise and deep
  3. Cherish the man who is funny. You will never be bored
  4. Cherish the man who treats strangers and the less privileged with dignity. He has a kind heart
  5. Cherish the man who listens. You will be understood
  6. Cherish the man whose idea of fun is constructive, not endless drinking and clubbing. He is mature
  7. Cherish the man who is a family man ready for responsibility and clear about what he wants with you. Your time will not be wasted
  8. Cherish the man who respects his father no matter how his dad is. He has learned true manhood
  9. Cherish the man who doesn’t insult his ex or your ex even if the break up was messy. He is someone who enters into love for the right reasons
  10. Cherish the man who needs you. He will hold on to you
  11. Cherish the man who lets you love him, who lets you see the nakedness of his weaknesses and strengths. He trusts you
  12. Cherish the man who accepts correction and changes his ways if he offends you. He will make himself better to love you
  13. Cherish the man who prays for you. He knows you are a gift from God
  14. Cherish the man who treats other women with respect. He will show you even more respect
  15. Cherish the man who loves the children you and also is a father figure to those not his. That man will have an honourable legacy
  16. Cherish the man with a vision. He will challenge and build you, he knows where he is going
  17. Cherish the man who has a good set of friends.You can tell the character of a man by the friends he keeps
  18. Cherish the man who values intimacy above sex. He will be faithful to you
  19. Cherish the man who is interested in your dreams. He cares about your future
  20. Cherish the man who respects your decisions and doesn’t rush you. He sees you as a life partner, not someone to dominate
  21. Cherish the man who corrects you when you wrong and inspires and pushes you to do better. He sees your potential and will not rest until your potential is lived out. That man is a keeper
  22. Cherish the man who has been consistent on his focus. You can depend on him
  23. Cherish the man who works hard, is self motivated and is diligent even when he has little. That man is going places and one day he will make you proud
  24. Cherish the man who is not intimidated by other men when they notice your beauty. He is a secure man

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde

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TEN WAYS TO AVOID HEARTBREAK IN 2021

Heartbreak is a more pronounced words when it comes to relationship and I am of the opinion that heartbreak is avoidable in 2020.

1.Know your genotype.

As an adult, your number one goal before going into any relationship this year should be to know your genotype because knowing this well help you a long way in your choice of whom to marry.

I have counseled several people who had to be break up their relationship due to genotype incompatibility and the pain is immeasurable.

A friend had to break up two year old relationship because they found out their genotype were not compatible.

If people had followed correct medical genotypical combination, there wouldn’t had been a “WORD SICKLE CELL DAY”.

You are not qualified to be in a relationship if you don’t know your genotype.

Kindly walk up to the nearest Hospital and get to know your genotype.

  1. Be convinced Before going Into A Relationship.

A relationship where God is the pioneer is difficult to break.

A relationship where you are both convinced the Holy Spirit is leading you to marry each other is difficult to break.

Before entering a relationship this year, ensure you pray and be led by the HOLY SPIRIT.

The reason you have been experiencing heartbreak is because you allow your carnal, sensual and physical knowledge to always lead you to a relationship not the Holy Spirit.

Holy Spirit will not break your heart while leading you to a relationship.

I have counseled many people who experienced heartbreak last year and I realized nearly all of them were not led by the HOLY SPIRIT before entering the relationship.

Your partner can just decide anytime and call off the relationship when you are not both convinced about God’s leading in the relationship.

If there’s a case that calls for heartbreak if you are not leading yourself, then you can easily run to the Holy Spirit on your knees to God in prayers for intervention.

The more reason I advocate for Courtship not dating.

Courtship is when you are convinced through the Holy Spirit about a Sister or Brother before entering a relationship with them while dating is when you physically asses someone to see if they are maritally suitable for you.

The highest number of heartbreak occurs due to Dating.

Go into courtship not dating this year.

  1. Don’t make your relationship secret.

I don’t expect you to go into relationship with someone without your mentor or Pastor awareness if only you don’t want to experience heartbreak.

I don’t expect you to be in a relationship without the awareness of your parents if only you don’t want to experience heartbreak.

Allow your mentor, parents or spiritual leaders to oversee your relationship under God and you will experience no heartbreak.

I could remember a situation where a Coach said she and the partner already called off their relationship due to a friction between the two despite they had conviction before entering the relationship.

When their parents heard they called off the relationship, the fiance’s father called him to order and to apologize for his misbehavior towards the fiancee.

Assuming their parents were not aware of the relationship, that’s the way way they would have broken up the relationship despite they are happily married with two kids today.

If you don’t want to experience heartbreak, get to know or meet each other’s biological or spiritual parents, it’s a sign of seriousness in a relationship.

Be bold enough to tell any lady or guy who asks you out that you are engaged.

Be bold enough to let your friends and family know that you are engaged.

  1. BE ACCOUNTABLE.

Learn to give weekly or monthly report and updates on your relationship to your mentor, Pastor or parents.

In case there is repeated misbehavior from him or her, such can easily be called to order while giving account of your relationship.

  1. AVOID PREMARITAL SEX OR ROMANCE

Premarital sex don’t make a man loves a lady more, rather it makes him to lust after her the more.

Sex doesn’t keep a man in a relationship.

It’s either he leaves you after having sex with you or leaves because you don’t give him sex.

If he leaves you because you refused him premarital sex, he’s not your husband.

A young lady came to me telling about her relationship with his boyfriend.

She confessed to me she has had multiple sex with the guy without using condom and I asked, do you remember premarital sex is a great to your body and God? what of if you get pregnant? What of if you are infected with STDs? She was dumbfounded.

I warned her of the need to leg go off the relationship because it’s sex driven and go through sexual purity class but she ran back to the boyfriend after a while and I didn’t force her not to go.

She came to me crying and lamenting after few months of ignoring me and leaving for the boyfriend.

She told me how her spiritual life became empty due to premarital sex and romance.

She told me how she aborted for the guy and still had sex with him thereafter.

But at the end, the guy broke her heart despite he was the one who deflowered her, impregnated her and gave her money for abortion. That’s the goal of premarital sex.

I was not surprised when she was narrating her experience with me while crying and sobbing in tears.

Premarital sex prepares you for premarital heartbreak.

Any relationship whose foundation is based on premarital sex cannot last and if it eventually leads to marriage, they won’t enjoy their marriage due to either infidelity or satanic attack because they have opened the doors for the devil through their premarital sexual sins.

The more reason divorce is so rampant is premarital sex.

Premarital sex lays a foundation for cheating in marriage and adultery leads to divorce.

No man or woman wants to be cheated on in relationship or marriage.

  1. Be committed to your Relationship.

If you are not interested in a relationship, set your partner free.

There are people who are in a relationship like they are not because either of the party is not serious or tired of the relationship.

A relationship where you can go for days, weeks or months without calling, chatting or visiting may not escape heartbreak.

A relationship where it’s only a partner that initiates chats, calls or visitation may not escape heartbreak.

A relationship that’s saprophytic in nature i.e only the brother or sister giving without giving anything in returns may leads to heartbreak.

A relationship where you compare your partner’s physical appearance(shape, height or skin) or academic level (NCE, HND,BSC) with another person shows you are not serious and heartbreak maybe inevitable.

A situation where you compare your relationship with others may spring up jealousy and discontentment

  1. Avoid communicating with your ex.

It’s easy to move from a friend to a Lover but very difficult to move from lover to ordinary friend.

It’s difficult to resist someone you have been once being emotionally attached to before.

The more reason you should avoid any form of communication with your ex.

You may wish them Happy Birthday in their inbox and let it ends there.

I have heard several reports of married women or men having sex with their ex in marriage.

Any frivolous discussion, chats, calling or visitation is not allowed except you are preparing for heartbreak with your current partner.

  1. Don’t make opposite sex your BESTIE

If your relationship will survive heartbreak this year, opposite sex should never be your BESTIE (best friend).

The more reason I preach you befriend your partner or marry your friend.

Opposite sex should not be your reading partner if your relationship will survive heartbreak this year.

If your relationship will survive heartbreak this year, you will not chat, call or visit opposite sex daily or too often this year.

  1. Be Transparent.

Be transparent in your decision making by carrying your partner along.

Your partner should be able to access your phone, laptop or other electronics gadgets without feeling reluctant except you are planning for heartbreak.

Giving your partner access password to your social media makes you to be your Lover’s keeper not your monitoring spirit like you think.

Be transparent when it comes to financial dealing with your partner.

Avoid any questionable character or lying.

  1. Be Purpose Driven in your relationship.

A relationship that’s bonded by purpose cannot easily experience heartbreak.

I don’t expect you to be in a relationship if you have not discovered your purpose on earth.

If the only thing you worship in your relationship is ” I love you, I miss you and exchange of gifts”, then such relationship is likely to fail.

Discover Purpose before relationship.

Be purpose driven in your relationship.

Being purpose driven means carrying out spiritual exercise together.

  1. Be intentional about your relationship goal.

You have to be sincere with yourself and be sure you are ready or ripe for a relationship before committing yourself into one this year.

You have to be sincere to yourself and be sure you want to marry this person before going into relationship with him or her, else you are preparing for heartbreak.

If you cannot marry him or her, there’s no reason to go into the relationship.

Don’t play with someone’s emotion.

Don’t waste someone’s resources, time and money this year all in a name of fake relationship.

Don’t be a reason someone will go for fasting and prayers in MFM prayers city or Shiloh this year.

God knows how to deal with deceivers in a relationship.

May true love find you this year.

Proverbs 22:3 A prudent man foresees the evil, and hides himself: but the simple pass on, and are punished

© Love Doctor Oluwaniyi Aderopo Hezekiah

Posted in General News, Health

LINDA VISITS HOSPITAL FOR THE 1ST TIME AFTER 10 YEARS OF BEING PARALYSED

Linda lost both Parents (Mum & Dad) at aged 10. She became disabled in the process and after loosing both parents she also Lost her only sister who came to her aid.

She had no Hope in Life of even seeing a Hospital Building so she had to be in the room by sleeping on the Floor for 10 Solid years..

Today we took Linda to the Hospital for the 1st time in her Life and it was all Tears of Joy but the unfortunate thing was that, Linda had NO HEALTH INSURANCE (NHIS) so we spent a little bit there.

Linda broke in Tears after being to the Hospital for the 1st time after 10years of being Paralysed and we have been scheduled to come back in April but she had been given some drugs.

We have hope and believe that Linda will surely get back to her feet again so let’s all support her in Prayers.

Our Doors are still opened to anyone that wishes to donate any little that you can to the following numbers to support Linda getting back to her Feet…

Donate to
0540169707
0202072024
(Clinton Yeboah).

God bless you all for your Love and Support.
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Source: Bones Man

Posted in General News

John Dumelo Fulfills Promise Even After Losing Election, Donates Another New Laptop To A Medical Student

Popular Ghanaian actor, Philanthropist and politician, John Dumelo has honoured his promise of buying a new laptop for a medical school student at the Ghana Medical School in Korle Bu.

It could be recalled that before the 2020 general election, John Dumelo was going about donating laptops to students in various tertiary institutions in the country to aid them with their studies.

Apparently even after losing the election, he still contineous to do so. Earlier today, Mr. John Yao Avu of the Ghana Medical School in Korle-Bu was the lucky recipient of one of those laptops.

The news was shared by blogger Mac Jordan on his official Twitter page saying;

”Thank you @johndumelo1 for once again honoring your promise of donating a brand new laptop to our brother John Yao Avu of the Ghana Medical School in Korle-Bu. May God continue to strengthen and embolden you works abd efforts. Akpe. Mawu ne yra wo #Dzolali #NowOrNever”

See the photos below;

Source:ENEWSGHANA.COM