Relationships and Marriages are going to require you to sacrifice your time to communicate and be with the one your say you love.
If you are not ready to make out time for your partner then you are not ready for a relationship or marriage.
Some of you are known to use the word
I am too busy,
I forgot.
You are not understanding that my work takes a lot from me.
These are beautiful excuses but they are worthless. The truth is that we all are busy with life in one way or another but we make out time for what is important to us.
You are busy but you take your bath.
You are busy but you still have time to eat.
You are busy but you still chat.
You are busy but you still wash your clothes.
You are busy but you still sleep.
You are busy but you still hang out with some other friends.
It’s only when it comes to your relationship that you are busy and still busy, even very busy that you can’t make out few minutes to talk to your partner over the phone, leave them a voice note, send a text or even clear some of your schedules and plan a hangout.
Let me tell you this for free until you are ready to make your partner a priority in your life then you are not ready for a relationship or marriage.
Marriage is a full-time job on its own. So if you can’t sacrifice time and other things now in your relationship to be with your partner then you are not ready to make that union work therefore stay away until you are ready.
As a guy, don’t spend months chasing a lady, calling her morning, afternoon, and night but when she finally says yes then you start claiming you are so busy to call or chat.
As a lady don’t keep that guy waiting for a yes and at the same time you call and chat but the moment you agree then you start claiming to be busy.
And to you who is suffering from this right now listen up.
Nobody, i mean not even a single soul is too busy for what they love.
Anybody that really loves you will make out time for you.
If you are not talking at least two times a day and they call you an attention seeker then you are in trouble. They are not passionate about you.
I understand the concept of being an attention seeker but you are not if you hardly talk to each other. You are just demanding for your fundamental relationship right of communication.
(Side note: you are an attention seeker when you are now a pest. You want to talk every minute and second of the day like you don’t have a life of your own outside that relationship. But aside from this, you are not doing anything wrong).
Also know when you leave a sure relationship because of your mental health.
So to you out there claiming busy, just be honest with yourself and with your partner if you truly love them.
If you don’t love them then let them go so they can meet who loves them but if you really love them then learn how to make out time for them.
Work on your time management skill and you will enjoy a better relationship and marriage.
Cheers.
Personal development and Relationship Coach
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