The social media is making cheating super sweet and super fast!
Just one chat can land you in bed with only God knows who and hell!
Countless people including born again Christians cheat daily. Millions cheat world wide.
Cheating doesn’t start with sex. It starts with finding pleasure in someone who is not your spouse.
When you begin to compare them with your husband/wife, you are looking for trouble!
When you begin to look forward to chatting with them, calling and spending time with them, your marriage is already suffering and you need to fix it!
When you are beginning to give compliments you don’t give to your spouse to them, you are having emotional affair…
When butterfly flies around in your stomach while talking to them -you are in a strong emotional affair.
When you call them pet names or confess your “love” to them, you are in full blown emotional affair.
If you are flirting, sex chatting or doing sexy video calls, you are having mental/visual sexual affair.
If you are meeting in secrets and well…you actually had sex…sorry is your name!
It all starts with simple calls, compliments, chats that means “no harm” but leaves you gasping, yearning and desiring for more while you chat/ talk less to your spouse at home and you begin to drift apart emotionally and physically.
Because you are not omnipresent, you can’t be emotionally present in 2 relationships at same time.
One will suffer for one. Usually the marriage suffers!
In this 2021, if you don’t guide your heart, eyes and ears, you will be drawn into emotional affair before you even gather your wits together.
Don’t entertain opposite sex friendship! Your spouse should be your best friend. I don’t have any opposite sex friend. I have counsellees and mentees, not friends. Call me a fanatic, that is your business!
Don’t get emotional in your chat with the opposite sex. Keep your head clear when chatting.
Don’t respond to emotional messages, focus on the godly purpose of chats and stay on track. Refuse to deviate.
Be proud of your spouse and be conscious of their presence whenever you are conversing with the opposite sex.
NEVER have a chat/make calls you can’t show your spouse or tell your spouse about.
Have a time limit to calls/chats.
Do not chat/call when you are stressed, lonely or bored.
Never chat with them when you are horny.
Keep your marriage alive, hot, romantic and passionate.
Keep sex and intimacy alive in your marriage.
Keep the line of communication opened.
Make your spouse your best friend.
Be contented with your spouse!
Stop looking for what your spouse lacks. No one is perfect. No one has a perfect body/character.
Pray and fast regularly to discipline your flesh.
Spend time daily with the word of God and prayer.
Be heaven conscious.
You will not fall into adultery and other sins in Jesus’ name!
Say NO to adultery!
Say NO to emotional affair.
“Guide your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life.”
You will not fall in Jesus’ name!
Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2021.
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